For the most part my younger kids don't have much problem keeping their rooms picked up. It just gets done each morning before they leave for school. If it gets messed up during the day, they have to pick it up before TV or computer time. As for my older girls.................
Well.........that's a different story. They did great until school got earlier, busier and they just didn't care to make the time. I tried to be patient and understanding but things were getting to where I couldn't stand it. They were also starting to rub off on the younger ones who starting fighting me more to keep their rooms clean. Why should they have to if their older siblings didn't? The example of older siblings goes a long way.
I came across an idea shared by one of my friends on
her blog and I decided to give it a try. I announced this new plan in our weekly family council and told them they had one week to pick up their rooms before we started this. My oldest was currently wrapping up a major overhaul of her room to complete part of her personal progress goal of organizing her room so I figured I had better give her time to finish.
The plan was simple. Each morning, after they left for school, I would go into their rooms and pick up anything that wasn't put away. These items would then all be put in a bag. If they needed something that went in that bag they would have to do a chore to get it back otherwise it would stay there until Saturday. On Saturday I would dump out the contents of the bag and they had 10 minutes to put it away. Anything left after that 10 minutes would then be mine.
Jolly J hated this idea (pretty good sign that it was a good one), and immediately wanted to know what I was going to do with the stuff left after the 10 minutes. I replied that hopefully she never had to find out.
The week past and the following family counsel I gave a reminder that the next morning we would start.
After the girls left for school I entered their rooms. Wow! was I surprised. First off, let's state it was nice to be able to open the door and have it open more than a few inches for nothing was blocking it. Their rooms were so clean. I only had to pick up a few items. I was elated and on cloud nine all day! The next day there was nothing to pick up. It has now been three weeks and there is never anything to pick up. Hopefully this is a habit that stays forever.